Tuesday, April 24, 2018

UBF all or none educational policies harm marriages

 Views expressed do not necessarily represent those of University Bible Fellowship


I said I wanted to marry someone who has never been to college preferably and avoid all that college brainwashing and student loan debt in a spouse.

I said it was wrong to peer pressure women to get PhDs.  There was one woman who said in her young disciples conference testimony she wanted to be married and become a stay at home mother but her shepherdess said she should get a PhD for the glory of God instead

The Pastor told me it was at one time forbidden for missionaries to attend college classes so they can teach college students full time and they had very difficult low paying jobs or lowly jobs or something like that maybe like working in fish factories and it turned out bad and later they found it worked better for missionaries to take college classes.

The Pastor even went so far as to quote Samuel Lee that it is better to drown in a lake than to not serve sheep in regards to the past policy of forbidding missionaries to attend colleges.

So later they started peer pressuring everyone to get PhDs even women that want to be stay at home moms this delays their marriage creating difficulties for women who aspire to be stay at home mothers by putting extra financial burden on their husbands for getting a PhD worth of debt then not working, decreases their husband selection as those hard to get medical doctors prefer eighteen year olds (see later anecdote) and may increase the risk in childbirth for their first child if they do not have children until after they get their PhD.

I am not saying no women should learn but I am saying 

Did the thought ever come to mind

Letting people choose instead of telling everybody the same directions as imperative behavior

Whether it is everyone in this demographic group should go to college or never go to college

But there were different rules for second generation UBF woman as one woman complained that her sister was going to marry a UBF doctor on her eighteenth birthday (SIC) (I wrote that in the past but am trying to fact check this and may change some of the details later depending on further information)

I guess I just did not meet their selection criteria to be hooked up with a eighteen year old.  And maybe just perhaps they did not want women other than their second generation daughters to compete for the limited supply of doctors in UBF so they encouraged them to get PhDs instead of competing for the doctors with their second  generation daughters but maybe not.

 Pile **it
Higher and
Deeper

You got to conform to the PHD or Doctoral standard



https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=sPitXyWT5kI

Let’s sweep this Campus- ex JW


 Jehovah Witnesses also have interesting policies about college check out this video

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